Disrespecting boundaries: Early in our relationship I didn’t want social media attention while my family law case was on going. Yet she posted in ways that could have drawn attention to our new relationship anyway.

Nita has used her social media is controlling and abusive ways throughout our relationship. But they also grant insightful glances into her opinions and how she experiences the world.

These posts are presented chronologically because they provide contemporaneous context. Readers should interpret them alongside the timeline and other materials rather than in isolation

My voice signing: 2/12/2022 Using my sound -

https://www.tiktok.com/@incognitaxoxo/video/7063895966063021358

I caught her lying about being in another relationship within weeks of meeting, I tried repeatedly to get the truth from her, but ultimately chose to spend Valentine’s day with someone else because of her dishonesty and volatility. We should have ended it there, but we both stayed involved.

I was shocked to see what began to emerge as she started using her social media to smear my reputation with my work colleagues and friends. Her promise to not cause drama was completely disregarded…

4/5/2022  Relationship becomes unpredictable as she post a TikTok talking about “Dumping me”

https://www.tiktok.com/@incognitaxoxo/video/7083301698105691438

Embarrassing me with my friends and old classmates, lies to the whole group immediately after we get there, tells the host that she was in the class a year ahead of her, when everyone know’s she’s obviously younger.